{"id":6326,"date":"2024-07-30T13:32:51","date_gmt":"2024-07-30T13:32:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.breakthecycle.org\/?p=6326"},"modified":"2024-09-20T12:31:34","modified_gmt":"2024-09-20T12:31:34","slug":"fear-of-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.breakthecycle.org\/fear-of-love\/","title":{"rendered":"14 Reasons You Have a Fear of Love: Dissecting Your Relationship Phobia"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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You\u2019re scared of being hurt, rejected, confused, or not being available when Chris Hemsworth rolls into town, and yet deep down you want a relationship. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
It\u2019s common to fear falling in love, especially with dating terms like haunting, ghosting, and zombieing being bandied about the internet willy-nilly. Makes dating sound like a horror movie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you\u2019re determined to explore love and relationships, you need to get to the bottom of your fear of love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you have been hurt by a significant other, especially in a toxic relationship, you\u2019re always going to be wary of it happening again, always afraid of getting hurt again. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
It feels like you may never trust anyone with your heart again. Feelings of anger, jealousy, hatred, humiliation, and powerlessness are exhausting, and they\u2019re hard to shake.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
According to the book Interpersonal Rejection<\/em>, \u201cBetrayal is devastating because it disrupts an ongoing, meaningful relationship in which partners have invested material and emotional resources.\u201d[1<\/a>]<\/sup> Therefore, you avoid situations that you fear could produce the same result.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s important to learn from these past experiences instead of letting them control you. Take back your power. According to Dray Salcido of the Healthy Human Project, we need to know why we are afraid before we can deal with our fear. She says, \u201cOwning our fear and seeking to understand it gives us back our power.\u201d[2<\/a>]<\/sup><\/p>\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n So look back on the bad experiences and use them. Think about your good experiences as well as your bad ones. Write it down, even. What worked, and what didn\u2019t? Identify the red flags you may not have noticed at the beginning. <\/p>\n\n\n\n You can use all of this to grow and shape your future.<\/p>\n\n\n\n There is no remedy for love but to love more. \u2013 Henry David Thoreau<\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n Comparing yourself to others, feeling insecure, constantly worrying, and nursing negative thoughts about yourself are all signs of low confidence. If you have strong feelings of dislike toward yourself, you might find it hard to believe that anyone else could love you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But you should be kind to yourself. Treat yourself to one thing that fills your soul every day, be that a nice bubble bath, a bar of chocolate, a glass of wine, or lunch with a friend. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Exercise is also a great way to make yourself feel good. A two-year study published in the Journal of Sport and Exercise Psychology<\/em> showed a correlation between increased physical activity and improvements in how the participants felt about themselves. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Author of the study Steriani Elavsky notes that \u201cmiddle-aged women can enhance how they perceive their condition and body attractiveness by continued participation in physical activity.\u201d[3<\/a>]<\/sup> <\/p>\n\n\n\n You can build your confidence higher by setting goals and achieving them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n I\u2019m not talking about climbing Everest here. Small challenges work too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Join a new class, a book club, or a walking group. It may be a little scary at first, but you\u2019ll be proud of yourself for doing it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n Your comfort zone is comfortable, yes, but that doesn\u2019t mean you should live there. My sofa is comfortable but if I stayed on it forever I\u2019d fuse to the cushions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cYou have been criticizing yourself for years, and it hasn\u2019t worked. Try approving of yourself and see what happens.\u201d <\/strong>\u2013 Louise Hay, You Can Heal Your Life<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n Therapy can also help you learn to love who you are. A study at the Research Clinic for Holistic Medicine in Copenhagen found that over half of participants improved their self-esteem after 20 sessions of therapy.[4<\/a>]<\/sup> <\/p>\n\n\n\n Therapy can be intimidating, but it\u2019s like going to the gynecologist \u2014 they\u2019ve seen it all a million times, they\u2019re professionals, and they won\u2019t be shocked.<\/p>\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n Maybe your fear isn\u2019t that deep \u2014 you like your me time and you don\u2019t want someone blundering along and disrupting it. After all, spending time with people can be draining, especially for introverts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Then again, it might go a little deeper than this. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Women who were raised by controlling and overbearing parents are more likely to be self-reliant and perhaps even afraid to lose that hard-won independence to a relationship, according to the experts at Psychology Today.[5<\/a>]<\/sup><\/p>\n\n\n\n Independence might be especially significant to you if you\u2019re a woman with a good career and financial freedom. Starting a family is lovely, if that\u2019s what you want, but the thought of giving your career up, or losing it involuntarily, is terrifying. <\/p>\n\n\n\n No one wants to go back to the days of traditional heterosexual relationships where the man worked and the woman was dependent on him. She couldn\u2019t even have a credit card in her name.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s not the 1950s anymore. Your relationship can be different. You can bury yourself in credit card debt if you want to. (Please don\u2019t.)<\/p>\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n Keeping your alone time and your financial freedom is important, and doable. You need to know your boundaries<\/a>, set them, and make sure that you choose a person who respects them. Walk your own path, speak your own mind, and make sure that you do at least some<\/em> socializing without your partner. <\/p>\n\n\n\n You can have your me time, your friends, and your date nights, as well as your career and your bank account, and your partner can have theirs too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Life is all about balance, and so are healthy relationships. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Parents can really F you up. If you were raised around toxic, abusive, or otherwise dysfunctional relationships<\/a>, you may be afraid of repeating the unhealthy patterns that were so normal to you growing up. But you can break these cycles if you are aware of them and conscious of your own behavior. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Communication is important. Talk about your experiences, how you feel, what you want from life, from your partner and your relationship. It\u2019s completely normal to set reasonable expectations<\/a> from your partner. A person who won\u2019t respect your clear and healthy boundaries is not the person for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Don\u2019t be afraid to argue. Arguments don\u2019t have to \u2013 and shouldn\u2019t \u2013 involve screaming and name-calling (somebody please<\/em> tell my ex). They should be constructive, not destructive. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Once you have respect for yourself and others, you can have respectful and constructive disagreements. Mindfulness and therapy can help if you struggle with conflict.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A lack of trust makes relationships particularly difficult. If you find it hard to trust others, the mere idea of a relationship can seem extra scary.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Possible causes for trust issues can include trauma, rejection in your childhood, and experiences from your past relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n People who were raised in toxic families will find it more difficult to trust others, and people who were repeatedly abused sexually in their childhood will find trusting others particularly hard. <\/p>\n\n\n\n According to an article published in the journal Psychological Trauma: Theory, Research, Practice, and Policy,<\/em> this devastating betrayal, understandably, messes with one\u2019s ability to figure out who can<\/em> be trusted.[6<\/a>]<\/sup><\/p>\n\n\n\n Your past experiences may have shown you that people, in general, are untrustworthy. Someone in your past smashed your rose-tinted glasses and now you look at others with suspicious eyes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n Learning to trust again is difficult. And it\u2019s even harder to do it on your own, as Dr. Judith L. Herman, a professor of psychiatry at Harvard Medical School, explains in Psychiatry and Clinical Neurosciences<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n She says, \u201cRecovery can take place only within the context of relationships; it cannot occur in isolation.\u201d You need to develop emotional connections with others to rebuild and repair your feelings of trust.[7<\/a>]<\/sup><\/p>\n\n\n\n There are ways to build trust in relationships, though, if you have decided to trust again. You need to be open and honest and expect (and get) the same in return. It\u2019s essential that both parties openly discuss their feelings and expectations. <\/p>\n\n\n\n You can\u2019t learn to trust a person if you expect them to let you down. If you often find yourself waiting for the other shoe to drop, it might be worth exploring therapy to help you resolve the lingering emotional trauma. <\/p>\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s been said that women who maintain their own surname after marriage do so because they\u2019re afraid of commitment. Now, you and I know this assumption is nonsense. What\u2019s not nonsense is the notion that women can fear commitment as much as men.<\/p>\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n If you\u2019re determined to work through your fear of commitment and get into a relationship, maybe even fall in love, acknowledge how afraid you are and try to pin down the reason. If you don\u2019t work through your fear, you risk pushing away people that you care about. <\/p>\n\n\n\n After all, a fear of commitment is truly a fear of intimacy. Every new relationship requires a modicum of vulnerability, and since you don\u2019t want to be vulnerable, you avoid relationships altogether. <\/p>\n\n\n\n I would say try not to think about the future, but that\u2019s silly. Everyone thinks about what their future might look like. You should try not to worry<\/em> about the future though. Instead, just enjoy the present. If you decide to commit to a relationship, look to the future with hope instead of trepidation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cThe greatest things in life all require commitment, sacrifice, some struggle and hardship. It\u2019s not easy. But absolutely worth it.\u201d \u2013 Robin S. Sharma<\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n Watching The Lord of the Rings<\/em> too many times may have caused you to hold your prospective partners to a high standard, but you need to remember that Aragorn is a fictional character and you will probably find it difficult to meet someone like that in real life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Let me make one thing clear: Women should have high standards.<\/strong> You deserve to be treated like the queen you are. <\/p>\n\n\n\n But you must avoid impossible <\/em>standards. <\/p>\n\n\n\n While it is good to want a high-value man<\/a>, you can\u2019t expect perfection. If you expect your partner to be perfect, and they aren\u2019t, because that\u2019s not a thing, your relationship will eventually descend into resentment and bitterness \u2014 on both sides. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Nobody can look good all the time, always be the perfect host, never be ill, or always want to have sex when you want to. We are only human, after all, and we should be loved for who we are. <\/p>\n\n\n\n To develop a healthy relationship you should keep your expectations realistic. That way, you won\u2019t be disappointed and your partner won\u2019t be under any pressure to be something they aren\u2019t \u2014 like heir to the throne of Gondor.<\/p>\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n More and more women are choosing the single life. According to a report from Wells Fargo, 52% of women were single as of 2021. In fact, \u201cwith women pushing back marriage or forgoing it altogether, the number of never married women has grown 20% over the past decade.\u201d[8<\/a>]<\/sup> <\/p>\n\n\n\n Women don\u2019t have <\/strong>to marry any more for fear of being left destitute, now that we are \u201c<\/em>allowed\u201d<\/em> to have personal bank accounts and own land, thank you very much.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you\u2019re not ready to start a relationship, don\u2019t force yourself. You should be in the right place in your life before you invite another person to share that life with you. If you\u2019re not ready, you\u2019ll get scared, or worse, get hurt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You can dip your toes in, go on a few dates, have some fun, if you like. But focus on yourself, for the most part. Concentrate on your career, work toward your goals. Travel the world, visit Machu Picchu, see the northern lights with your friends. <\/p>\n\n\n\n When you\u2019re ready to settle down, you\u2019ll know.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s hard to open up when you are afraid to be vulnerable. Putting your heart on the line takes inner strength and confidence, which can be hard to come by. <\/p>\n\n\n\n An article from Cyprus Turkish Journal of Psychiatry & Psychology <\/em>explains, \u201cIn relationships, vulnerability is when an individual lets another person see their inner world.\u201d[9<\/a>]<\/sup><\/p>\n\n\n\n Once you open up to someone, they will open up to you, if they haven\u2019t done so already. This will make you feel more connected to each other and help you build trust, intimacy, and a meaningful bond. <\/p>\n\n\n\n The more you know a person, the more you can grow with them. Being your honest and authentic self is extremely important in the development and maintenance of a relationship, and engaging in intimate conversations can bring you closer together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n To be vulnerable with others, you first need to know yourself and be aware of your own emotions. Therapy and\/or journaling can help you take control of your thought patterns and insecurity, if necessary. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Talk about your feelings with others by telling them what you\u2019re afraid of, what makes you angry, or even what makes you happy. You can do this in baby steps, but you have to start somewhere. <\/p>\n\n\n\n With the divorce rate what it is, we\u2019ve all witnessed some dismal, doomed relationships. Watching from the outside while a couple deteriorates is not fun. They\u2019re unhappy, they resent one another, and they both feel trapped, and yet they hold on and hold on until they\u2019re both broken (and in many cases \u2014 broke). <\/p>\n\n\n\n This could instill a fear of love in anyone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But these bad relationships are not signs to you from the universe, they\u2019re simply people who shouldn\u2019t be together but won\u2019t let go. Your relationships don\u2019t need to be the same as the ones around you. Learn from the failing relationships you have seen. You can learn and grow by observing other people’s mistakes, as well as your own.<\/p>\n\n\n\n When love comes around for you \u2014 and it will \u2014 you\u2019ll be better off for watching these difficult relationships, not worse. <\/p>\n\n\n\n If you\u2019re not sure what you\u2019re looking for in a partner, but you definitely want to find love, why not just have fun during the search? Date date date, and then date some more. You\u2019ve gotta kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s normal to be unsure when you\u2019re searching for someone to spend your life with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Start by exploring your own values. Not only your values in a relationship<\/a>, but your life values. What\u2019s important to you? By knowing yourself, you can know what you want in a partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You might want to be wined and dined or backpack around the world. Maybe you want someone who will be a stay-at-home parent, or someone who is sensible and financially stable. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Writing a list may seem terribly unromantic, but it\u2019s a good way to get your thoughts in order. Things like whether or not you want to have a family, and if so, how many children you would like. You might want dogs in your life \u2014 of course \u2014 so someone who hates animals won\u2019t be ideal for you. If you have a preference for country or city living, write that down too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n But don\u2019t forget that opposites attract. You may collect this list of things you want in your prince but then a frog comes and lights a fire within you. Just go with it!<\/p>\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n You might fear that your new relationship will swallow you whole, that you will lose your sense of self if you become part of a couple (or throuple, whatever you\u2019re into) but there are ways to make sure that doesn\u2019t happen. When you know who you are and what you want from life, and feel secure in your morals and values, this sense of identity isn\u2019t going to be easily lost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Embrace your hobbies and other things in your life that you\u2019re passionate about, and don\u2019t let them go by the wayside when you enter a relationship. Have this discussion as soon as you level up a relationship<\/a> so you can manage your partner\u2019s expectations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You may find someone who shares your interests, and you two can have a world of adventure together. But we all know that opposites sometimes attract, so you could fall in love with someone who has completely different pastimes, which you should both keep pursuing separately. <\/p>\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n Being pushed away is a dreadful feeling. If you\u2019ve ever experienced rejection, it\u2019s totally understandable that you\u2019d want to avoid it. Once bitten, twice shy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n This fear, however, makes it difficult to have deep connections with people. <\/p>\n\n\n\n According to an article in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, <\/em>sharing how we feel could go either way. Authors Joel et al. say, <\/em>\u201cFor example, sharing an intimate thought with a friend carries the potential for both connection (if the friend responds with validation) and rejection (if the friend responds with disapproval).\u201d[10<\/a>]<\/sup> <\/p>\n\n\n\n If we aren\u2019t sure our feelings will be validated, if we are afraid of rejection, we will probably not share them at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The fear of rejection will be ever-present as long as you feel that you are not worth loving. This can be overcome if you work to grow your sense of self-worth, with therapy and building your self-confidence. <\/p>\n\n\n\n You should challenge negative thoughts. If you think someone will reject you, think about whether that fear is based on what you know about that person, or past experiences. You might think you should trust your gut, but an anxiety disorder can make our guts lie to us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You should also come to terms with the fact that being rejected is not the end of the world. Just think of what you have to gain if you aren\u2019t<\/em> rejected. It might just be the beginning of a beautiful love story.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cOf all forms of caution, caution in love is perhaps the most fatal to true happiness.\u201d \u2013 Bertrand Russell, The Conquest of Happiness<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n About 16% of American adults have anxiety of some type and degree.[11<\/a>] <\/sup>Generalized anxiety disorder, which manifests as constant worry, can mean you\u2019re also scared of many types of relationships, including romantic ones.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Anxiety might cause you to be scared to get into a committed relationship for many reasons, including the development of an unhealthy attachment style. Stress and anxiety can cause us to cocoon ourselves in a protective layer within our comfort zones. When we control everything around us, we shut people out. We don\u2019t get hurt. There\u2019s no one to worry about. <\/p>\n\n\n\n But when there\u2019s no one to worry about, there\u2019s no one to love. And I don\u2019t doubt that you have a lot of love to give. Yes, you want to be alone, but finding someone you love can be so much better than control.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mental health professionals, such as those who practice cognitive behavioral therapy, can help you get control of your mental health issues. You don\u2019t have to let anxiety and depression stop you from trying to find love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you fall off your bicycle and scrape your knee, you don\u2019t give up cycling. You\u2019d miss the wind in your hair, the world rolling by, the seat up your butt . . . You can just wear kneepads in future. <\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s the same with relationships. <\/p>\n\n\n\n If you\u2019re afraid of love, explore ways to prevent that hurt from happening. Wear the kneepads of love, if you will. You might fall off the bike again, but your knees will be safe next time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cThere is no intimacy without vulnerability.\u201d \u2013 Bren\u00e9 Brown, Daring Greatly<\/em>.<\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n Looking to explore more topics about starting a relationship<\/a>? Check our page here.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You feel so scared to be in a relationship either because you can\u2019t trust anyone, you fear heartbreak and rejection, or you value your independence. Exploring the reasons why you\u2019re afraid of love and intimacy can help you move forward into a real relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Yes, you can have a successful relationship if you\u2019re afraid of love, but it\u2019s going to take some work. Both parties need to be open about how they feel and get vulnerable with one another. You need a partner who will be supportive and understanding of your needs and your fears.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You know if your fear of relationships is holding you back when you feel stuck in a cycle of relationships that go wrong or you sabotage the relationship and push him away. Practicing self-awareness may give you a chance to break this cycle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 1. Fitness, J. (2001). Betrayal, rejection, revenge, and forgiveness: 2. Salcido, D. (2020, January 11). Afraid to connect<\/em>. Healthy Human Project. 3. Elavsky, S. (2010). Longitudinal examination of the exercise and self-esteem model in middle-aged women. Journal of Sport & Exercise Psychology, 32<\/em>(6), 862\u2013880. 4. Ventegodt, S., Thegler, S., Andreasen, T., Struve, F. ,Enevoldsen, L., Bassaine, L., Torp, M., & Merrick, J. (2006). Self-reported low self-esteem: Intervention and follow-up in a clinical setting. The Scientific World Journal, 7<\/em>, 299\u2013305. 5. Zarrabi, R. (2023). How the fear of losing independence impacts relationships<\/em>. Psychology Today. 6. Gobin, R. L., & Freyd, J. J. (2014). The impact of betrayal trauma on the tendency to trust. Psychological Trauma: Theory, Research, Practice, and Policy, 6<\/em>(5), 505. 7. Herman, J. L. (1998). Recovery from psychological trauma. Psychiatry and Clinical Neurosciences, 52<\/em>(S1), S98-S103. 8. House, S., Seery, S., Cervi, N., & Kohl, J. (2023, March 8). Party of one:<\/em> 9. Bakshi, A., & Ansari, S. A. (2022). The key role of vulnerability in developing authentic connections in romantic relationships. K\u0131br\u0131s T\u00fcrk Psikiyatri ve Psikoloji Dergisi, 4<\/em>(1), 103\u2013109. 10. Joel, S., Plaks, J. E., & MacDonald, G. (2019). Nothing ventured, nothing gained: People anticipate more regret from missed romantic opportunities than from rejection. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 36<\/em>(1), 305\u2013336. <\/a> 11. Terlizzi, E. P., & Villarroel, M. A. (2020). Symptoms of generalized anxiety disorder among adults: United States, 2019. NCHS Data Brief No. 378. <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n
2. You Struggle With Low Self-Esteem<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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3. You Fear Losing Your Independence<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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4. You Worry About Repeating Unhealthy Patterns<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
5. You Have Unresolved Trust Issues<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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6. You Have a Fear of Commitment<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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7. You Have Unrealistic Expectations<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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8. You’re Not Ready for a Relationship<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
9. You’re Afraid of Vulnerability<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
10. You’ve Witnessed Difficult Relationships<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
11. You’re Unsure of What You Want<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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12. You Fear Losing Yourself in a Relationship<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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13. You Fear Rejection<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
14. You Have an Anxiety Disorder<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Why do I feel so scared to be in a relationship?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Can you have a successful relationship if you’re afraid of love?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
How do I know if my fear of relationships is holding me back?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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